Monday, November 28, 2011

Janet Ward - 1927 - 2011

Dear family and friends,

feeling like dancing
For those of you who may not have heard, we received the sad news that Ronnie's mom Janet Ward (aka Tutu) passed away this morning. We had so hoped that we would be able to see her when we went home for Christmas. We are currently in the process of trying to get our tickets changed to come home 2 weeks earlier than originally planned. Please pray for Ronnie and the rest of the family and also that the logistics will work out so that we can make it home in time for the funeral. We thank God for giving us a wonderful mother, grandmother and mother-in-law all these many years!!! We are blessed.

Since I won't be blogging for awhile, please accept these early wishes for a very blessed Christmas. It is because of Christ's coming and the assurance we have in Him that we can experience peace in times such as this. We love you all and look forward to seeing some of you very soon!

Love,
Jan & Ronnie


kicking it up at her 83rd birthday
nobody could make 'em like our Tutu!


Tutu biscuits - worth fightin' over!
Eva Janette Chambers


Tutu as a young woman

Carrie, Tutu & Julie - Christmas 2006
Tutu and her 4 kids

Tutu on her 80th birthday

Ronnie & Tutu - 2005

cutting a rug at Lesli's wedding



The following video was made in June 2011. Nothing perked her up like some good ole' country western music!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Around Town

I'm posting a few random photos that I took as I was out and about in Bandung this past week. Even if there's nothing exciting going on, I usually do errands with Dadang at least some portion of each day. Since being here I've developed the habit of grabbing my camera whenever I leave the apartment. Not that I always use it, but if I don't have it I'll surely regret not having it with me.

Saddam?


I snapped the photo (right) because the guy sitting down reminded me of Saddam Hussein when US special forces pulled him out of his spider hole. Ok, this guy wasn't quite as dirty looking, but the resemblance was still uncanny.




I've tried to stop whining about our laundry situation, but to get you up to speed, we're now on our 4th laundry service and I'm hoping this can be the last. I've resigned that everything will probably need to be tossed when we return to the States, but if it just doesn't smell soured, I'll settle for that!! It's called....Simply Fresh. We'll see....


Simply Fresh? (upper right)




My friend Marcia told me that when new people come over to work with them, they typically take all their photos in the first year. She says the reason for this is that after you've been here awhile, everything becomes "normal" to you and you get to where you don't even see it. I'm sure that's true of most of us as we move around in our own neighborhoods to some extent. But so far, I am still noticing a lot of things and taking photos!


food vendor washing dishes on sidewalk - a common scene

















cock fighting below our balcony

















These photos are but small "slices" of Indonesian life. Hopefully they will give you an idea of the kinds of things I observe in and around the streets of Bandung. Perhaps it's because Indonesians live so differently than we do, I can't help but find them interesting!


we are constantly amazed at how they navigate intersections!



















scooter hauling flower board


Indonesians take their "nit picking" to a whole different level!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

A very different Thanksgiving...

It goes without saying - we would MUCH prefer being at home celebrating the season with family and friends, stuffing ourselves with our favorite holiday foods, watching football (some of us) and giving thanks for our many blessings!! But we dream...

Since that isn't possible this year, we decided the next best thing was an escape from Bandung without having to travel too far. So tomorrow we will have Dadang drive us to Jakarta where we will celebrate Thanksgiving with some other English-speaking folks at the American Club. I don't have my hopes set too high for "turkey and dressing Jakarta style" but I do look forward to sharing dinner with another Fulbright couple we met last July at orientation in Washington, DC. We'll also get to meet some other Americans and that is a rare treat in these parts.

And though we are separated by miles from those we love, we can still give thanks for all the blessings God has poured out on us, all of which are His mercy and His grace. (Living in Indonesia certainly helps us count our blessings! HA)

We love all of you and wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving - with cornbread dressing! 

BAIS Indonesian Culture Day

When I learned this morning that Bandung Alliance Christian School was having its Indonesian Culture Day today, I thought it might be fun to attend. BAIS is where my friend Marcia's son goes and where my other friend Helen (yes, I have 2 friends!) has been coaching basketball. I've been wanting to see the campus anyway so it seemed like the perfect opportunity to visit. Unfortunately I arrived late and missed getting to see the little ones dance. But I did get to sample some of the local dishes and snap a few photos. Below are some of the more colorful shots of the day.


common ingredients found in Indonesian cuisine

young dancers in colorful costume

performing traditional Sundanese dance

accompanied by bamboo instruments

es campur (cham-poor) 


A young woman (above) assembled my dessert - a very traditional Indonesian dish that I had read about and wanted to try. It still seems like such a strange combination of ingredients. There are a lot of recipes for this on the web and it can contain some even more unlikely ingredients than these. Ingredients pictured here are fermented tapioca (at first I thought they were pomegranate seeds), then fresh young (slimy) coconut, chopped mango, dried bread (diced, dry, unflavored), avocado, and shaved ice. This is drizzled with canned milk and a sugary flavored syrup. While it wasn't bad at all, I'm still not sure I understand its popularity here.


unusual combination of ingredients?


celebratory bamboo decorations blowing in the wind


cute friends posing in becak (Indonesian pedicab)


more elaborate bamboo decorations


kids were learning the batik process


wayang gembol puppets
traditional wooden puppets

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

food, food and more food


Perhaps I shouldn't blog when I’m hungry, since it seems that too many of my posts lately have been food related. Can you take one more?

Eating the local food is just the first of many adjustments necessary to living in a foreign, underdeveloped country. So here's my confession - we’ve not learned to love Indonesian food yet. There are several reasons why.

A primary one is the gastronomic “adjustment” the body has to make during the first few weeks/months of living in a third world country. We were informed ahead of time about the food/water/sanitation issues we would face and have made every effort to minimize their impact (thank you Pepto Bismol, Immodium, Pearls, Mega Acidophilus and Levaquin!)


dishes being washed on sidewalk outside a restaurant


A second reason we’ve not yet learned to really appreciate the local cuisine requires another confession. Neither of us is a really what I'd call an “adventuresome” eater. Specifically, we’re squeamish about eyeballs, whiskers, feet, heads and other animal parts that are easily identifiable but unwelcome on our plates. So we tend to play it safe (ok, ok, call us picky!) And thirdly, given that we are without a driver in the evenings, going out to eat at night is just way more trouble than it’s worth. Still, we manage to eat out occasionally so I will talk about that.



Ronnie ordered fried chicken - this was his plate
Dining out here is cheap (by American standards). A large pizza and fruity drink might be $5-6 US. This includes an occasional service charge; tipping is not expected. While this sounds cheap to us, it's not to many Indonesians. Dadang (driver) eats his lunch each day for 10,000 rupiah from the roadside stalls - that's about $1 per meal. Rice, as you would expect, often plays a major role in meals. In restaurants, however, fries can sometimes be substituted.


Nasi goreng (fried rice) is usually very good, although it can sometimes be quite fishy tasting. It is often served with a fried egg on top. The photo below is Nasi Goreng Ayam (fried rice with chicken) and it's the best I've found so far.

I've even learned to make fried rice since being here. It's messy so I cook outside in the wok on the dirty kitchen cook top. I've discovered that the trick to good fried rice is to use cold (at least one day old) rice.


nasi goreng ayam


dumplings with character - Bao Dim Sum at local mall


On the weekends we have ventured out a number of times, always with a recommendation. The standard fare if you’re not going for Indonesian cuisine is pretty much fried chicken served with mixed vegetables and French fries (all from frozen). Nothing to write home about. We have found one pizza place that we like (owned by an Indonesian who has lived in NYC). Overall however, most of our dining out adventures until late have been so-so at best.

As I've mentioned in other posts, we don’t eat off the roadside carts because of the bacteria factor. Even our driver had some serious stomach issues yesterday likely because of something he ate off a cart. The locals eat food (rice, noodles, vegetables) cooked in non-potable tap water. It surprised us to learn this and while we were eating with an American couple we’ve met here, I was pondering aloud why the Indonesians don’t get sick eating food prepared in unsanitary water. The husband casually quipped between bites “it’s because they already have the tapeworm.” That struck us both as pretty funny, but I suppose that our digestive systems can eventually adapt to wherever and however food is prepared.


honeydew, avocado with chocolate and strawberry drinks


But the really enjoyable thing about Indonesian restaurants, even if the food isn’t so great, is that they always offer a large variety of drinks on the menu. These are all non-alcoholic, very delicious and very cheap – usually around $1.50 US. There is usually a long list of fresh fruit based drinks (honeydew, strawberry, blueberry, mango, pineapple, etc) There are also the milk based ones with ice cream, chocolate, coffee, etc. and then there are some that would take some getting used to, such as avocado with chocolate. Often these drinks are a lot more enjoyable than the meal itself! But they are also served over-the-top sweet so I have learned to order them with the sugar on the side (gula di sisi) which comes as a clear simple syrup. We are never sure if the ice is safe (made with bottled water).


Warung Sate Senta

I’m excited that we’ve recently discovered an Indonesian restaurant that serves its chicken sate sans skin (Indonesians apparently love to eat chicken fat) and I’ve eaten there twice in the last week. The nasi goreng (fried rice) is usually a safe bet as well, so if we’re ordering Indonesian this is our standard meal. Of course there are many other Asian cuisines in the city as well. Pictured below is a truly delicious meal we ate at Queens, a very old Chinese (family style) restaurant. The entire menu was in Chinese and we were the only non-Chinese in the entire restaurant, but fortunately our waiter spoke some English so we were able to blow off the menu and just tell him what we wanted. 






Queen's Chinese sweet n' sour chicken


my current favorite - chicken sate with peanut sauce



As our systems adjust and other opportunities present themselves, I’m sure we’ll adopt some favorite foods and restaurants. But in the meantime, we’re eating most of our meals in and making some pretty decent fare using our “campground cooking” style.



Monday, November 21, 2011

fast food, Bandung style


can't help but wonder who the doner was? eww,,,
Indonesia is famous for its roadside food offerings, which could very appropriately be labeled fast food or food-to-go. But its largest cities also offer what we Americans call fast food - namely through the presence of several large chains - KFC, McDonald's, Pizza Hut and Dominos. Of course their menus bear little resemblance to ours in the US since they cater to the tastes of the local market. For example, the biggest seller on McDonald's menu is not the humble burger and fries. No, it's a chicken leg sided up to a ball of sticky rice. In addition to the variation of menu items, drink choices are also different. Diet drinks are not an option. So if you don't want a sugary soft drink, your choices are water, a sugary fruit tea or Milo (I've not tried the latter but it is very popular here and looks akin to chocolate milk). Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that even restaurants we are familiar with are just not quite the same.  

Saturday while we were at Estana Plaza mall, we decided to eat lunch in the food court. An Indonesian food court is pretty much the same as in any US mall but with the one major exception - its food offerings. Since I had my camera with me, I decided to snap some photos so that you can see our options. Which one would you choose?


I'm not eating at any place named Fatmawati


Taiwanese street snacks...hmm...
As with any other business, these establishments are way overstaffed and there are at least a half dozen pairs of eyes staring at us as we try to decipher what our options are. We slowly made the rounds and then ended up - you guessed it - KFC. I ordered #1 which sounds simple enough. But try substituting fries for a rice ball and water for a soft drink and see how quickly things start to unravel. After several flubbed attempts, we finally managed to get our food ordered. Both of us ordered fried chicken and we were given one thin napkin between us.



the name means "secret meatball" - I don't think so!


Although some of the meals people were eating didn't look half bad, it's still very difficult to order by just looking at photos posted high on the wall as you are being stared at by numerous employees. I can't read them, can't pronounce them and I don't recognize them. Risky at best...



decisions, decisions


food court, Estana Plaza


 beef related - the cow is my tip off


You guessed it! Thanks, Colonel!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Oh, my aching....

#238, yep, this is it.
About 4 weeks ago while running, Ronnie injured his left calf muscle. In reading online, he learned that there are 3 different levels of calf strain (bruise, tear or separation from the bone) and each takes a different length of time to heal. Even though he’s laid off running, it still hasn’t progressed in healing so he’s been pretty frustrated. Friday at his swim lesson he was complaining about his calf injury to his coach,  as well as a tension ache in his back. After hearing his complaints, Mr. Beli (Chinese) gave him the name and phone number of someone who he felt certain could help him. He also speculated that whatever had happened in his leg was causing the problem in his back (perhaps this should have been a clue??)


Since it wasn’t getting any better, he decided to make an appointment with this guy. He called and a woman answered and told him to come on over (this was in the evening). Our driver doesn't work in the evenings so Ronnie made an appointment for the following morning at 9am. She first tried to make it at 7am, then 8am but he explained that he couldn’t make it until after 9am when our driver arrived.



reception/treatment/waiting room - no diplomas in sight


So Saturday morning Ronnie and Dadang found the place without a problem, though he still had no idea what to expect. As he entered the front room (which turned out to be the reception/waiting/treatment room all rolled into one) he was immediately greeted by a funky odor and told to take a seat while “the man” worked on another patient who was in obvious pain. After he finished working on the poor guy, Ronnie said he walked around the partition and came back with a pink pill which the man dropped into his shirt pocket. The guy who was in pain held out his hand with an undetermined amount of money and gave it to the man that worked on him.



 shoulder works
Ronnie was up next. He listed his complaints (back, left calf) but instead the guy started working on his hand! Ronnie reiterated it was his back that was hurting so after massaging his hand and arm for about 15 minutes, he moved to his back for maybe 15 minutes, occasionally dipping his hand into a mixture of water and baby oil. Lastly he moved down to the calf and massaged that for another 15 minutes or so.


getting the "treatment" on his calf

When Ronnie got up to leave, he asked how much he owed and the man indicated there was no charge. Ronnie gave him 50,000 rupiah and he seemed very pleased (that’s about $6US). He dropped it into some kind of small container next to the short stool he sat on.


Amazingly his back and leg felt better afterwards. So today after church we dropped by and the whole process was repeated. I looked around to see if there were any diplomas on the wall or anything that might indicate what type of training he had. Didn’t see anything. I asked him if he had a business card when we got up to leave and surprisingly he produced one. On it was a line drawing of 2 hands working on another hand along with his name A. Kostaman and address. So I guess you could say that we’re still not sure what exactly he does, but whatever it is, he's been doing it for a long time.

He actually seemed quite nice and we even learned that he has a daughter in San Antonio where her husband is stationed at Lackland AFB. We also learned that he works 7 days a week from 7am-7pm, 3 weeks of each month in Bandung and 1 week of each month in Jakarta. Ronnie said people were coming and going each time he went (he’d already treated a man from Switzerland this morning before we arrived and a young Muslim woman was on her way in as we were leaving). Apparently, business is good.

So we’ll see how the leg and back do now. If we were at home, he would have already seen his preventative medicine specialist who would have probably already ordered an MRI to take a look at his calf muscle. This will sure be a heck of a lot cheaper – if it works!!